Ok, i guess i should use this first entry to explain why i am writing this and why i am doing what i am doing but firstly i will give you a little overveiw of the wonder that is me, so you guys can call me jess (not my real name but than no one from here on out is going to have their real names posted by me, you will get why soon).

I am a 29 year old quite happily married mother of two girls,very big into the music scene and with a full social circle, my marriage, although not dying a death, is lacking lots of the old f.u.n and most importantly the sex, so i find myself in a weird situation, do i bump along unhappily with a great husband(who will called the artist formely known as the husband) who gives me and the girls so much in the way of support, conversation and company or do i get greedy and find the fun, laughing and sex elsewhere while putting on the good mother/wife role at home?

I have chosen the latter, as it says on the tin, i was born to mess up!

To just get you up to date quickly, the main players at the moment are The husband (x), The player (a reporter for a tabloid, probably not a smart move, but he is very cute and very married),Max (seriously good looking, full of the charm and very good in the sack oh and single), The porch (used to drive a porsche, nice bloke in the same situation as me, not slept with him) and The old man (not actually that old, but have known him since i was 18 and have always called him that, he has just got back in touch after a five year absence).
I love to give funny names, hoping that you will get used to this as time moves on.

So this is me, love or hate what i am doing (i am not stupid, i know thats its very wrong) i am doing it and using this as my little soapbox to sound off about whats going on along the way, i think its going to make interesting reading but be warned, i am far to frank for my own good!